When Should You Hold an Intervention?

What to Consider When Planning an Intervention

Planning an intervention to maximize all chances of success properly is crucial. When planning your intervention for your loved one, consider the following:

• The Group: 

  Carefully consider which family members and close friends to involve. Do not include anyone who supports or condones drug or alcohol use. Choose people who truly have your loved one’s best interests at heart.

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  The Professional:

   

   Families should always consult a professional for help with the intervention. Interventions work best when assisted by an addiction counselor or intervention therapist.

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  The Location:

   

  Choosing a space where the person will feel comfortable and safe is best. A private location is always better than a public place.

• The Information:

   Educate yourself on your loved one’s addiction. The more you know, the more help and support you can provide. If you do not understand what you’re dealing with, you may have difficulty conveying your points to your loved one.

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  The Message:

   

  It’s good to know what you are going to say beforehand. Take some time to discuss with the intervention group what needs to be said and how you will say it. Avoid using “you” statements; those indicate blame. Instead, use “I’ statements that convey how the addict’s behavior has or is personally impacting you.

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  The Treatment Plan: 

   

  If you encourage your loved one to seek treatment, have a treatment plan ready. Find a treatment center that is appropriate and is available to begin treatment on the same day as the intervention. All arrangements need to be made beforehand.

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  The Worst Case Scenario:

   

  Plan for your loved one to continue denying they have a problem and refuse your suggestion to seek treatment. Decide with the group if there will be a backup plan or a request.

Also, consider how you can stop any enabling behaviors with the addict; this includes limiting access to money, housing, or any other support you provide that allows the addictive behaviors to continue.

Interventions need to be performed by a group of people who are close to the addict. Typically, these are close family members.

Alcohol.org states, “The intervention will not be as effective if the group consists of many acquaintances who have only superficial relationships with the person.”  The intervention led by individuals who share a strong bond with the addict brings the intervention to a close and intimate level. This is important because it has meaning for both the subject of the intervention and the group of loved ones performing it.

Is it Time for an Intervention?

If your loved one is struggling with addiction, you do not need to feel helpless. You can’t control whether or not someone living with addiction will agree to treatment and remain sober. An intervention can help protect your overall well-being. If your loved one refuses to go to treatment, do not give up. Distorted thinking is an issue when dealing with your loved one in active addiction. You may see the situation clearly, but your loved one may not see their frequent abuse of their drug of choice as an addiction. Learning how the disease of addiction and the support groups that can help you may help you the next time you try to talk to your loved one.

There is a wealth of information online. However, you may want to speak to an addiction specialist to discuss your situation and how best to handle it. Recovery is a journey. With the right treatment and support, you and your loved one can start on the right path. Staging an intervention is often the best possible way to begin.